I’ve been sitting with a question I can’t shake: what if the separation we feel from others – especially people we’ve hurt or loved – isn’t actually real? Not as some abstract philosophy thing. As something practical. Something that changes how you show up in conflict, in relationships, in everyday life. So I’ve been exploring…
My son is three and a half. He’s just starting to figure out how life works. And there’s something I desperately want him to know – something my father never told me, something I didn’t discover until I was 50. This isn’t abstract philosophy. It’s about what carries you through decades of feeling like you’re…
This is how radical it is. The mind simply wants to capitulate. Truth (capital T) can be known only by experience. Experience is private and non-reproducible. Talking about an experience is not the experience. Therefore, you can know Truth, but you can never talk or write about it. I’m trying to make the point that…
Everything and anything I can point to is a part of the dream. Everything that can NOT be known is a part of the dream. Everything you can “get” is a part of the dream Everything I say here is a part of the dream. What is “the dream”? What you call your life. Ok….
(There are 3 ways to approach this: 1-overlook it/not read it at all, 2-gloss over it as your mind checks out on every other sentence, and 3-let it penetrate you, take pauses, feel the tension in your mind every time it arises, and come on the other side. If you do 3, you may get…
Want a glimpse into who you truly are? It’s easy. Imagine being transported here on Earth from another planet, civilization, or dimension. You land in your body and are sitting exactly where you are sitting (or standing). You look around with amazement. You don’t know how this world works. You don’t know anything. You are…
This video encapsulates my journey from Bulgaria to self-acceptance, highlighting the struggles and realizations that have shaped my life. I was born and raised in Bulgaria, a communist country at the time. I was almost 16 when things began shifting toward democracy—or what looked like democracy in the beginning. However, it was more about the…
There are three kinds of people Genuinely unhappy peopleOvertly happy people – but internally unhappyGenuinely happy people 1 – Genuinely unhappy people Life happens to them. They react to their circumstances. They blame others and life. Nothing wrong with this. It’s a life stage. We’ve all been there for however short or long. 2 –…
How to Shift Limiting Beliefs In this episode, I discuss the importance of beliefs and how they shape our reality. I explain that limiting beliefs are the root cause of feeling stuck in various areas of life, including relationships, business, health, and finances. Our circumstances are not the cause but the effect of our thinking,…