Getting back in shape in your 40’s and 50’s

Have you ever asked yourself “What do I really want?” The answer to the question is uniquely private. The “answer” is your own experience. The very definition of “experience” is it’s uniquely private and non-reproducible. Meaning nobody can have this experience for you. Nobody can get to the answer but you. Therefore nobody else can…

It took me 50 years to finally understand why we sometimes get what we want, and most of the time – we don’t.

I’ve been sitting with a question I can’t shake: what if the separation we feel from others – especially people we’ve hurt or loved – isn’t actually real? Not as some abstract philosophy thing. As something practical. Something that changes how you show up in conflict, in relationships, in everyday life. So I’ve been exploring…