How much weight is too much weight to lose?

My son is three and a half. He’s just starting to figure out how life works. And there’s something I desperately want him to know – something my father never told me, something I didn’t discover until I was 50. This isn’t abstract philosophy. It’s about what carries you through decades of feeling like you’re…

I’ve been sitting with a question I can’t shake: what if the separation we feel from others – especially people we’ve hurt or loved – isn’t actually real? Not as some abstract philosophy thing. As something practical. Something that changes how you show up in conflict, in relationships, in everyday life. So I’ve been exploring…

Last night I was walking by the sea and something hit me. For years – no… more than a decade – I’ve felt like something was wrong with me. Not just for asking questions like “What’s the meaning of life?” but for not having satisfying answers. Especially for not knowing the Truth with a capital…

Have you ever asked yourself “What do I really want?” The answer to the question is uniquely private. The “answer” is your own experience. The very definition of “experience” is it’s uniquely private and non-reproducible. Meaning nobody can have this experience for you. Nobody can get to the answer but you. Therefore nobody else can…