You think something went wrong with you in your 40s. The questions that had no answers. The confusion that wouldn’t resolve. The identity that suddenly felt like quicksand. You weren’t malfunctioning. You were in the Tunnel. Here’s what actually happened: For years, you shaped yourself around what others needed. Your parents. Your partner. Your career….
In a world of success, celebrities, glitter, NY times best-selling authors, public figures with 100’s of thousands or even millions of followers don’t you find it hard to relate deeply? There are a lot of examples out there of what I think I want (which I unconsciously believe will help me feel the way I…
Even most “experts” don’t understand this. If you get this you will have one of the ‘big answers’ about how life works. A mini-masterclass on reality creation Let’s go… 1. All events are both positive and negative From a quantum physics perspective, every event contains all possibilities. Until you as an observer collapse it into…
Perfectionism is a compensation mechanism for not-enoughness (I’m not good enough) Perfectionism is a procrastination tactic Perfectionism is fueled by fear (of judgment, rejection) Perfectionism is an illusion (Nothing is static. Everything changes all the time. Therefore nothing can be perfect. It’s a physics law.) Perfectionism keeps you playing small Let’s get some things clear…
The most common problem people have is they live in chronic existential distress. The biggest reason for that is people don’t dare to be themselves. And, how that looks like in everyday life is… Hiding, censoring yourself, muting yourself People pleasing Perfectionism Downplaying everything Not having clear boundaries or allowing your boundaries to be violated…
[arve url=”httpsss://youtu.be/IFqL_t0d2aU”] Man’s Life Mastery Blueprint [Part 5] – Living A Good Life Part 4: Video: Man’s Life Mastery Blueprint – Body Mastery Life Mastery isn’t about making a lot of money, although it can include that. It isn’t about being successful in an enterprise, although it can be that. And, it isn’t about being…