Attracting emotionally unavailable partners
“I keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners” If that’s something you’ve ever said or thought to yourself – read on. (If not, you probably know someone who has – share this with them) I’m not a relationships coach. And I don’t have to be. This is pure psychology – and that’s what I DO understand and […]
You have never done anything wrong – ever!
If you really get what I’m about to share with you – and if you let it in – you’ll never be the same! I know this is a bold statement to make… but you be the judge at the end. You tell me! Today I had a beautiful connection call with another coach. We […]
Why it gets hard before it gets easy
It always gets hard first before it gets easy, especially one you commit to something big! Have you noticed that? Someone decides to lose weight and starts on a program. The first few weeks suck. And the scales don’t move at all… sometimes the scales even go up. Someone decides to go all in financially […]
You forgot how to hear this voice
When I was in my teens and twenties I wanted to be powerful. I wanted to be famous. I wanted to have a lot of money. The closest I got to fame (if one could call it that) was during my bodybuilding career. But I didn’t feel powerful. I didn’t have lots of money. And, […]
My old “me” would have tried to keep this a secret
I’m learning to share with you a part of me that is still afraid to share and to be “found out about”… The part of me that makes me too human – just like you. Life is tough. Life is the ultimate teacher. And I am a student of life – again… just like you. […]
The “Not enough” Gene
Scientists have finally discovered the gene that’s causing not-enoughness! It took such a long time because the gene itself was feeling not enough and as a result of that, it was really small and not fully expressed. You get that this is a joke, right? I just made it up. There is a point that […]
How to get out of being stuck
You cannot out-action your way out of being stuck and struggling. There are two ways people go when they are struggling: Resignation Forcing their way out What I said at the very top applies to the 2nd category of people. Here’s why “forcing” your way out is probably your default – and only – way […]
This is what self-sabotage is
Chances are good that the thought you are having right now – right NOW – is disempowering you and is moving you farther away from what you want. And you have that kind of thought most of the time every single day. That’s basically what self-sabotage is. What kind of thoughts are these? Any of […]