…and how to want in joy instead of pain and suffering. How often do you want to be somewhere else rather than where you now are? And I don’t mean physically, but rather in the sense of “I’m not okay where I am right now and I want things to be different”. If you are…
“If you keep doing what you’ve always done you’ll keep getting the results you’ve always gotten” If you take this statement literally (as I used to) you will get stuck in a loop of repeating more of the same past. This statement, taken literally WILL produce exactly what it is aiming to prevent. First, who…
I’ve messed up in my relationship more times than I want to admit (but here it is..) All my mess-ups came largely because of the following two reasons (and I would argue that most men are afflicted by both): Here’s a great analogy of how the first affliction works: If we throw a pebble into…
There’s a signal I’ve been catching in the gym for years. The harder I try to stretch, the more my body resists. Pull harder on the shoulder stretch, the shoulder locks down. Relax, and it opens. It’s not a metaphor. It’s a real mechanism. In physical science it’s called the Central Governor Model. You never…
Choose a shoulder exercise from the ones, listed below: Military Press Dumbbell Overhead Presses Smith Machine Military Press Upright Rows Standing Dumbbell Lateral Raises Standing Bent-over Dumbbell Lateral Raises One Arm Cable Lateral Raises Front Dumbbell Raises Military Press Works: Shoulders How to do it: Get a wide grip on a barbell. The starting position…
It’s the summer of 2016. I’m sitting on my desk, facing the Truth, having to admit that the way I’ve been trying to do it for 42 years is just NOT WORKING.
It’s been quite a journey since then.