It took me 50 years to finally understand why we sometimes get what we want, and most of the time – we don’t.
A few examples of how people “believe” reality works: The right way of thinking about reality (and taking full responsibility for it) looks more like… Truth: Trying to change your physical world without changing your inner world first: So why are we still stubbornly trying to do it this way? Well, what do you think?…
Even most “experts” don’t understand this. If you get this you will have one of the ‘big answers’ about how life works. A mini-masterclass on reality creation Let’s go… 1. All events are both positive and negative From a quantum physics perspective, every event contains all possibilities. Until you as an observer collapse it into…
Talking to my people… and their biggest fear That they are going to waste their entire life living far below their potential. That was my fear for decades. And all it was causing was strengthening my doubts that maybe I was not meant to express my potential fully in this lifetime. Deep inside there was……
This is what the brain usually does [and it’s not good]… After you finish reading this sentence, you will never be the same. You are no longer the same person who started reading this text. You already changed. The person who woke up this morning was different from the person who started reading this post….
I’ve messed up in my relationship more times than I want to admit (but here it is..) All my mess-ups came largely because of the following two reasons (and I would argue that most men are afflicted by both): Here’s a great analogy of how the first affliction works: If we throw a pebble into…
There is ONLY ONE reason for experiencing any of the following: Feeling inadequate, insecure, insufficient (not enough) Feeling stuck and at a standstill Hiding, censoring yourself, muting yourself, making yourself small People pleasing Perfectionism Not having clear boundaries or allowing your boundaries to be violated Trying to fit in Excessively doubting yourself, being indecisive Feeling…
This happened not more than a few weeks ago… I was out on the streets walking briskly. Not because I was hurrying to get somewhere – but because I was trying to run away from myself. How does one run away from themselves? They don’t because they can’t. It’s impossible, right? The reason I was…
Yesterday, on a coaching call I asked the client what were the main insights and shifts from our coaching so far. She recalled all the mindset shifts and insights that now allowed her to see the world differently. She said at the end that there was one unexpected thing that stood out for her regarding…