You think something went wrong with you in your 40s. The questions that had no answers. The confusion that wouldn’t resolve. The identity that suddenly felt like quicksand. You weren’t malfunctioning. You were in the Tunnel. Here’s what actually happened: For years, you shaped yourself around what others needed. Your parents. Your partner. Your career….
Have you experienced guilt or other forms of resistance towards giving yourself permission to take a few hours to do nothing? To just be with your thoughts? To be with yourself? To go in? To meditate? To purposefully and intentionally do nothing? Isn’t taking time to do absolutely nothing just… hard? I don’t know about…
Perfectionism is a compensation mechanism for not-enoughness (I’m not good enough) Perfectionism is a procrastination tactic Perfectionism is fueled by fear (of judgment, rejection) Perfectionism is an illusion (Nothing is static. Everything changes all the time. Therefore nothing can be perfect. It’s a physics law.) Perfectionism keeps you playing small Let’s get some things clear…
You’ll be surprised – or liberated – to know this: The part that thinks that there’s something wrong with you was born a few years after you were born… When you were born, there was nothing wrong with you. You didn’t come out of the factory with the note “Damaged, defective, messed up”. You were…
Update – 11/28/2012 – – – – – My recording and progress tracking begins in this article. This is where I pick up from the other blog… The date today is October 8th, 2012. After taking a long break from updating my website, I am back. On this page I will record my most…
Let’s make things easy… What’s your purpose in life? What’s the highest purpose in every-single-person’s life? I just had a mastermind call with soulmates. And this came up in the call. And it asked to be spoken about. Revisited again. Contemplated in later quiet hours (which is where this text is originating). Powerful questions that…