You cannot out-action your way out of being stuck and struggling. There are two ways people go when they are struggling: Resignation Forcing their way out What I said at the very top applies to the 2nd category of people. Here’s why “forcing” your way out is probably your default – and only – way…
The most common problem people have is they live in chronic existential distress. The biggest reason for that is people don’t dare to be themselves. And, how that looks like in everyday life is… Hiding, censoring yourself, muting yourself People pleasing Perfectionism Downplaying everything Not having clear boundaries or allowing your boundaries to be violated…
Chances are good that the thought you are having right now – right NOW – is disempowering you and is moving you farther away from what you want. And you have that kind of thought most of the time every single day. That’s basically what self-sabotage is. What kind of thoughts are these? Any of…
One of the biggest fears is the fear of getting a NO. Getting a NO feels like rejection. It feels like another piece of evidence that “I’m not good enough”. The irony is that pretty much our entire lives are made of NOs. It’s the nature of life. If the energy (thoughts, feelings) around getting…
None of the following is wrong… Excessive self-doubt Lack of direction, confusion Deteriorating relationships Negative money patterns Lack of fulfillment in life Consistent self-sabotage Again, none of this is wrong. It’s just not useful to live a life that’s afflicted by one or more of the above (usually more than one). The good news is…
No matter where you are – that’s where you are! And it’s perfect! You might be at a point in your life where it’s hard to find things to be grateful for. You might be thinking “Why did this have to happen to me?” And, it might seem that life is against you, that there’s…
“If you keep doing what you’ve always done you’ll keep getting the results you’ve always gotten” If you take this statement literally (as I used to) you will get stuck in a loop of repeating more of the same past. This statement, taken literally WILL produce exactly what it is aiming to prevent. First, who…
Big words but… I strongly believe that if you took a moment and really considered how this feels in your body, the way you show up for the things you truly want and the people you truly want in your life will never be the same! COMMITTED energy vs ATTACHED energy I heard this in…
I am talking to those who are like me… These people have always known deep inside that they were born for bigger things. But, just like me not long ago, they find themselves playing small, knowing painfully well that they have thus far seriously under-utilized their big potential. And, they feel this high pressure on…